Has a kiss of desire on the lips
Thursday, October 02, 2025
 | Rosa 'Susan Williams- Ellis' 2 October 2025 |
The White
Rose - John Boyle O'Reilly 1844 –1890
The red rose
whispers of passion,
And the
white rose breathes of love;
O, the red
rose is a falcon,
And the
white rose is a dove.
But I send
you a cream-white rosebud
With a flush
on its petal tips;
For the love
that is purest and sweetest
Has a kiss
of desire on the lips.
This English
Rose, like many of my roses, reminds me of my Rosemary. She was gentle and
tiny. Sometimes, in spite of her many strengths, I thought she was fragile. I
would now correct that to – she was dainty and delicate.And strong.
Winter is
almost upon us and I look at my waning garden wondering if I will be around
next year for spring. There is some hope when a white, dainty and delicate rose
blooms. It proves that I figured out my Rosemary correctly.
Memory & Tradition Appreciated
Wednesday, October 01, 2025
In 1951 my
mother took me to see the 1947 film The
Ghost and Mrs. Muir with Rex Harrison, Gene Tierney, George Sanders and Natalie
Wood as a child. Because I was 9, Harrison’s booming voice did not scare me. I
loved the film and fell in love with Gene Tierney.
I saw the
film again in Mexico with my mother and with my Rosemary. In Vancouver some
years ago my daughter Hilary says we saw it together.
Obviously
there is some memory and a consistent tradition with this film and my family. While
I live alone with two cats since my Rosemary died on December 9, 2020 I am
lucky to have two daughters. Alexandra who lives in remote Lillooet I don’t see
too often, but my younger daughter Hilary who lives in Burnaby I see once a
week.
Luckily (again!)
she is a snob like her mother and her father. She likes to see good films,
particularly the ones with little violence. And so it was that on Tuesday she
screened The Ghost and Mrs. Muir on her TV after we had dinner. I brought the ravioli
and she made the salad.
Somehow it
was almost like we were seeing the film for the first time as we forgot some of
the details. That made it even more fun.
We both noticed that the
prominent portrait of Harrison on the film compares ever so nicely with the
portrait of Gene Tierney in the 1944 film with Dana Andrews, Laura. Famously
Dana Andrew’s character falls in love with Tierney by just seeing her portrait.
He is told that she is dead. We know better! Dana Andrews the ultimate film noir actor
Hilary and I
will be seeing Laura next. I will be bringing a Safeway barbecued chicken for
dinner.
I fell in
love with Tierney in 1951 and that emotion was not repeated until I saw my
first Grace Kelly film, Rear Window, Eva Marie Saint in Raintree County and
Audrey Hepburn, in Roman Holiday. To this day Eva Marie Saint must have been in
my mind when I fell for my blonde Rosemary. When Rosemary and I had a garden in Kerrisdale I purchased Rosa 'Sexy Rexy' as I thought it had been named after Rex Harrison. That was not the case. That rose grows in my Kitsilano garden. Guess who I think about when I see it in bloom? Rosa 'Sexy Rexy' Thank you Hilary for the memories.
Not To Be Missed
 | Marc Destrubé & Alan Storey | |
Since
journalism in Vancouver became moribund some years ago the promotion of
cultural events has declined. Publicists as well as journalists are now
obsolete.
There is one
solution to this dilemma. It is to get on cultural (music, dance, theatre, art)
email lists. I am in several. Two important ones involve the leader, violinist
Marc Destrubé of both the Microcosmos
Quartet and La Modestine (named after Robert Louis Stevenson’s donkey on his
trip through Europe).
Here are the
web pages for those two groups. Microcosmos Quartet La Modestine Upcoming Microcosmos House Concerts and Program
I will not
be missing one of the house concerts (they repeat the same concert in various
homes within a week or two. It is the Microcosmos Quartet playing in the house
of multi-talented artist/architect/etc Alan Storey. I wrote about a previous
one at his home here.
Before I
ever went to a Micrcosmos Quartet concert I would not have been caught dead
listening to Béla Bártok. I found his music dissonant and cold. That all
changed when I watched the quartet’s four warm musicians (with smiles on their
faces) play the Bártok Quartets. Microcosmos Quartet & Béla Bártok
These
concerts are not expensive and they involve food and drinks. In the case of
Storey’s house it is filled with stuff you want to ask him about.
Story is not
the only NOY one-trick pony. Marc Destrubé plays both the gut-stringed baroque
violin but also the modern stringed instrument. He is a born teacher so at
every concert you will learn something new. It was he who told me that the
horse-hair used in a violin bow is from a male horse’s tail. It seems that
female horses urinate on their tales and that makes their hair unusable. In a recent La Modestine concert, organist/harpsichordist Marco Vitale told us a fact that amazed me. It seems that in a harpsichord when the keys are pressed the instrument's mechanism goes up but is unable to come down if there is no gravity. Vitale then added, "Harpsichords cannot be played on the moon."
And because
Vancouver is a city with a poor memory for its past guess who designed and
built the pendulum in the Pendulum Gallery?
Lutescent & Albescent
 | Aconitum carmichaelli 'Arendsii' 1 October 2025 |
In Lewis
Carroll's Through the Looking-Glass, Humpty Dumpty declares to Alice, “When I
use a word, it means just what I choose it to mean—neither more nor less.”
With my
roses waning I happily can still use my scanner thanks to some of the other
plants like this hosta and the aconitum. Because Rosemary’s favourite colour in
the garden was blue she planted lots of aconitum that that have the pleasant
feature of blooming in the fall.
My friend, now
gone, Wolfram George Schmid who wrote the best book on hostas gave me one tip
which I am not aware most people might know. He said that if you put a yellow
plant next to a blue one, both colours will be enhanced.
Yellow
hostas like this one, Hosta ‘Midas Touch’ are sometimes called gold hostas. As
the season progresses and particularly if they get sun they become albescence
which is another term that Schmid taught me. Some hostas turn yellow from
green. In that case they are lutescent.
I miss my
Rosemary because she urged me to learn botanical nomenclature. There are few
people, now that heavy duty gardening is in a decline, who are interested in
it. How many know that roses do not have thorns but have prickles. There is something that few know about German-born Wolfram George Schmid. Before he retired to his garden in Atlanta he designed launching pad platforms for NASA.
When yellow leaves, or none, or few, do hang
Tuesday, September 30, 2025
 | Rosa 'Sweet Juliet' and Hosta 'Forbidden Fruit' 30 September 2025 |
As I scanned at this rose
and hosta leaf I came to the conclusion that spring represents to me hope,
summer is happiness, fall is reflection and winter is death. Chief Len George told me
years ago that the Indigenous Peoples believe that if you survive a winter you
will live to see another year. I am keeping my hope. Chief Len George & Winter
This rose I do not believe
will be the last one of the season. I just might get lucky. I was sad scanning
it as whenever a season began Rosemary and I discussed its ramifications. We
reflected on the season past and planned the season to come. Alone with two
cats I can no longer do that. The changing of a season somehow becomes a lonely
experience.
And of course, as I write
this I am wearing a long-sleeved flannel shirt. I might have to turn on my
heater in my oficina.
Sonnet 73: That time of
year thou mayst in me behold - William Shakespeare
That time of year thou
mayst in me behold
When yellow leaves, or
none, or few, do hang
Upon those boughs which
shake against the cold,
Bare ruin'd choirs, where
late the sweet birds sang.
In me thou see'st the
twilight of such day
As after sunset fadeth in
the west,
Which by and by black
night doth take away,
Death's second self, that
seals up all in rest.
In me thou see'st the
glowing of such fire
That on the ashes of his
youth doth lie,
As the death-bed whereon
it must expire,
Consum'd with that which
it was nourish'd by.
This thou perceiv'st,
which makes thy love more strong,
To love that well which
thou must leave ere long.
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