Tassling Memories
Friday, September 13, 2019
Pasties (singular pasty or pastie) are patches that cover
a woman's nipples and areolae, typically affixed with adhesive. Though pasties
are commonly associated with strippers, burlesque shows and erotic
entertainment, they are also, at times, worn as an undergarment, beachwear, or
as a form of protest during women's rights events such as Go Topless Day that
may avoid potential prosecution under indecency laws.
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Sometime in the year 1996 I received a dial phone
communication from Adrian du Plessis who was about to single handedly bring
down the Vancouver Stock Exchange by funnelling crucial information to
Vancouver Sun’s white crime reporter David Baines. He asked me to show his
friend Nina Gouveia how to take
photographs. He had recently given her a Mamiya RB-67 like my own.
I had Gouveia come to my studio and we had a nice chat
and we shot some pictures of each other. She was a lovely woman with a most
positive approach to life.
To my later chagrin and deep guilt I stopped teaching her
any kind of photography and had her, instead face my camera. This she did for
many years.
Our collaborative output saw the light of day at the Exposure
Gallery until it closed its doors sometime around 2008. Argentine artists Nora
Patrich, Juan Manuel Sánchez and I had Gouveia pose for us for sketching and
photography many times. Of Gouveia, Sánchez had the ultimate compliment, “Es plástica,”
which was all about her ease of flexibility and being able to pose for long
periods of time. We did know that she practiced yoga.
Our relationship ceased when Patrich and Sánchez decided to divorce and they returned to
Buenos Aires in separate airplanes. Soon after Gouveia moved to Spain.
I miss her smile, her quirky voice and even the clunker
boots she has always chosen to wear. I know that those wonderful moments cannot
return and that my thick file of photographs of her are safely stored but to me
it is a tragedy that they must remain there in this age of increasing puritanical
attitude all aided to our detriment by social media.
But I was lucky to have met her and I believe that my
guilt is all gone.