In Mexico
when you are talking to a friend (in person) you might start, “¿Mano que hiciste hoy?” The question to
the friend on what he was doing that day begins with the word mano which is
Spanish for hand. I have no idea why in Mexico the use of this word to address
a friend is used. But it had me going in the last few days.
It seems
that every day I go into my office and I print at least one inkjet. I have
hundreds of them. Until we moved from Kerrisdale (where I had a darkroom) to
Kitsilano about 9 years ago I was proud of my skills in printing archivally.
Now I have matted prints from those days in all kinds of drawers. There are like
I wrote above hundreds of them.
Now in this
century I have seen the interest in holding a photographs in one’s hands
diminish which to me is scary. To me the holding of a photograph is still magic.
The etymology
of manuscript in Spanish is clearer that in English as manuscrito is literally
hand written.
It was when
I took my two granddaughters to my old boarding school in Austin, Texas, some
years ago that we ran into a priest. I asked him to bless them. Rebecca ran
into my friend and mentor, Brother Edwin’s computer but Lauren was blessed and
the priest laid his hands on her forehead. I don’t have to believe in any
religion to accept that the laying of hands is an important action.
In our
once-a-month lunch meetings at the Sylvia few other photographers besides me
bring physical photographs to our show and tell. Options seem to be phones or
laptops.
I have few occasions
now to actually handwrite something. For the last 30 years my handwriting has
so deteriorated that I cannot read much of it. When it is something important I
print.
There is one
live entity, my female cat Niña that wants to be petted all the time. I miss
being able to put my hand on Rosemary when we were in bed or to walk with her
hand in hand.
In my native
Buenos Aires and in Mexico when you go to a party or meeting you greet other
men (and women) with an abrazo. If that male friend is a good friend you kiss
on both sides of the cheek in Buenoa Aires.
I will never
forget giving my print of my portrait to Mstislav Rostropovich backstage after
his concert. He gave me an abrazo and that very Russian three kisses on either
side of my c






