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Sunday, December 06, 2015

I Would Dump My Wife For Two Of Them

Tamsin Gilbert


Fortunately for photographers they can invite striking subjects to pose for them. If you are a plumber (much wealthier than photographers these days in the 21st century) you cannot approach a likely and wonderful subject with, “I think you are beautiful. I would like to show you some of my best plumbing.”

For many years the honest approach, “I love your face. I would like to photograph you,” worked flawlessly and even when I added the word “undraped” to the question.

I have often repeated to my friends and family (in the presence of my wife Rosemary to whom I have been married for almost 48 years), “ I would dump my wife instantly for either Charlotte Rampling or Molly Parker. My guess is that my attraction to these two actresses (not actor as I am old fashioned) has something to do with freckles.

In my years of taking portraits of beautiful women, including my luck at two sessions with Molly Parker I can only cite two more who had a passing resemblance and presence to Charlotte Rampling.

One was an English girl called Lisa Milroy. I wrote about her here. The other was poet Gerry Gilbert’s daughter Tamsin now married and called Tamsin Gilbert Bragg. I wrote about Tamsin and Gerry here.

But I must add just a bit more to the story. As a heterosexual photographer I can assert that in many ways I live the potential of parallel universes. I fall in love with the faces of many of my female subjects. There is a saying that says, “A man loves often but little, a woman seldom but much.” Perhaps with me it is like that about my  infatuation with the beauty of my subjects. I never indicated any feeling or made any advances to either Lisa Milroy or Tamsin Gilbert. And yet I think that the electrical impulses going through my heart enabled me to take wonderful portraits of them.

As I write this on Saturday night (to be posted for Sunday December 5) I am anticipating the wonderful and extensive profile of Charlotte Rampling in the T-Magazine of the NY Times. The on-line version is even better (I believe) as it has more photographs and even a video of that goddess of Zardoz. This anticipation serves as enough justification to place here that striking portrait of Tamsin Gilbert which I took around 1987. And if she reads this I hope she blushes. She should.

Charlotte Rampling in T-Magazine 

Addendum: After seeing The Inception Bureau with Mat Damon, Emily Blunt & Terence Stamp with Hilary, Lauren and my Rosemary Saturday night (my second viewing) I think I might have to add Emily Blunt to my list of two.